本帖最后由 社工哥哥 于 2010-11-8 00:02 编辑
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' j& T7 a% K0 J7 s2 V/ p |I am tring to reply u in english .practice it,aha.3 f8 D) ?( M' B \) E* q$ ^
i quite agree with that" nurture carries far more weight than nature on shaping a person's characterisitcis." enviornament is far important than a person's nature.
) S+ \- u1 t( Q; HAs i learned from my colleagues that when they live abroad, everything changes..they follow the traffice rules, they stand on line while waiting for buses.shopping ...but when they come back home, they just do like every chinese do..maybe not every..
1 O; d4 A. v% i! y, fhow this occurs? they can be a "good" person abroad..but here in china...they can not..8 }$ k6 r( _0 S) J
I don't know. but always i am trying to be a person who follow the rules.* E0 ~+ i- ` C5 ]$ }
I am thinking if everything can be govered by the rules or law,but not only by ethic rules, can this situation change? " U' b# M; l5 K% ~5 a8 B% z
. c4 g( r/ F% \, x* mOH, while talking this.. i begin to miss one of my friend from austria..while walking along with him.you always feel comfortable .he will open the door ,take the chair, take the coat for you... a gentlemen. all these behavior were shaped by their culture or laws?i don;t know. |