silence: I am tring to reply u in english .practice it,aha. i quite agree with that" nurture carries far more weight than nature on shaping a person's characterisitcis." enviornament is far important than a person's nature. As i learned from my colleagues that when they live abroad, everything changes..they follow the traffice rules, they stand on line while waiting for buses.shopping ...but when they come back home, they just do like every chinese do..maybe not every.. ) S1 K1 |" ^0 c, p8 D6 C
how this occurs? they can be a "good" person abroad..but here in china...they can not.. I don't know. but always i am trying to be a person who follow the rules. I am thinking if everything can be govered by the rules or law,but not only by ethic rules, can this situation change? OH, while talking this.. i begin to miss one of my friend from austria..while walking along with him.you always feel comfortable .he will open the door ,take the chair, take the coat for you... a gentlemen. all these behavior were shaped by their culture or laws?i don;t know.
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我试着用英语回复你。联系一下,哈哈。我非常同意,后天培养比本性在塑造一个人的特征上占据了更大的比重。环境比一个人的天性更加重要。我从同事那里了解到,但他们在国外生活的时候,一切都会改变...他们遵守交通规则,等公车或者购物时自觉排队...但是回到大陆后,他们就像每个中国人做的那样去做...也许不是每个人。这些是怎么发生的呢?他们在国外可以是一个“好的“人..但在中国却做不到。我不知道为什么。但是我始终在努力做一个能够遵守规则的人。我在想,如果一切都可以被法律或者规范约束,而不仅仅是道德约束,是不是会有所改变?说这些时,突然很想我的一个奥地利的朋友,当你和他一起走路的时候,你永远会觉得份很舒服。他会为你开门,拿开椅子,为你拿外套...绅士。这些行为是他们的文化还是法律塑造出来的?不知道。哈哈。 |